it just means that on some level they are your equal and because of this you will always have a special kind of love for this person. People tend to forget that there are many different levels of love but each one is special Ex-lovers who are friends were either never in love to begin with, or still are. True or false and why?
False. I am friends with most of the guys I used to date. It has to do with whether you can fight fairly and treat each other decently and with some respect. The few exes I am not friends with are situations where either (1) the guy was a nice guy but didn't really love me for myself but only thought I would be ';suitable'; as marriage material so he really has no use for me as a friend, which is his problem not mine; or (2) there were too many unfair fights and outrageous insults. If someone's idea of ';friendship'; is that I put up with him acting horribly I won't do it. If someone truly treats me like a friend then I'm happy to be friends with him after we break up. Ex-lovers who are friends were either never in love to begin with, or still are. True or false and why?
False.
I am still friends with my first love. We have a child together so have had to keep in contact. His girlfriend seems to be insecure when it comes to him and I. But I assure you that you can be friends w/ an ex-lover and not like them. I look at him now and wonder how I ever loved him or was with him...it's weird to me that I used to be attracted to him and want to be around him.
But I was once deeply in love w/ him....so it is possible.
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