Sunday, February 7, 2010

True or false (love or not)?

I am 13, i am gay he probably knows it and i meet this guy when i was twelve. He was a bully and he would make fun of me. later i started to talk with him and we became friends.(i hav a way with having bad friends) after a few months we were really good friends. This school year i started to flirt with him grabing his a.s.s.and he would grab my nipple yesturday he invited me to sleep over. Before we went to bed he took off his pants and went into bed in boxer i went in with him happy as **** and he would put his hands and feet over me andi open my eyes and see he did it on purpose. later i put my hand over his butt and he opens his eyes a crack so i move it and put it on his crotch he opens his eyes and i move my hand slightly and keep on sleeping. He didnt move from that position. Weeks before i sent him a IM telling him that if he wanted to go out with me and he takes like 5min to answer and another 5 min to say just kidding. Cause i sent it like a joke sort of. He hangs out with me during school and every week we go out to some plae as friendsTrue or false (love or not)?
Well you are really young so and I think you're to young to know what love is considering your just becoming a teenager and your hormones are gonna be all over the place so I don't think it's love, sorry.True or false (love or not)?
dude you are 13 and really too young to have or be tied down to a single person. dude let the friendship continue to grow and maybe in a few years you can hook up as bf's but untill then just go along and dont push anything or go to fast





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i think that it might grow into love. but, dont pull that ';just kidding '; stuff. your going to need to work at it if you want it to perhaps blossom into a relationship
love is an action.


Love never dies. Love is patient. Love is kind


';buildings burn people leave love never dies';- the Crow





i dont know. do you love him



I'd say infatuation.
Love?


Does he LIKE you?


Definitely!


Luck you!


He seems like he needs some time to sort out his feelings though.
no that's not love, that is two prepubescent boys experimenting
its not love...


ur not too young to love...but u are also 13 ur love will not be the same by the time u are 26...





right now u 2 are just experimenting...its not love...maybe a strong form of like...
Its not love. He's probably just playing
srry no love just touching
False, you are 13 you have no clue what love is.
Josh, I answered the previous question with the same content and here are my additional thoughts.


We are never too young for love, but don't mistake lust for love. We need lust to draw us together, but we need familiarity and respect to build love. When we consider relationships, we should remember that for a relationship to work we have to be interested in the same or similar things. For instance music, if you were a classical music fanatic and your friend was a Rap fan, you both would have to find compromise and with the wide differences in the music types it would be difficult. However if he was a jazz fan, there is much similarity in the types of music. That's not to say you couldn't work it out if the differences were wide, but it would always be a point of contention.


Back to the point, as I said just roll along with the tide for a while and enjoy your sexual self, remembering how lucky you are to be gay as you wont have to worry about financing a family and educating a tribe of kids. Your prospects of being quite wealthy by the time you are thirty are very good indeed. and if you are a good person with an unselfish outlook, your chances of a life mate or partner are also very good indeed. all me best wishes go to you and your mate. ROBERTO.



I think you need to understand the fact that sex isn't always the same thing as love. None of us are going to be able to tell you if you are in love, you need to determine that for yourself but thinking about if you really want to be with him in a caring relationship, and if he wants to be with you in that way as well. I would say if you ask yourself that question and answer no, that you just want sex with him, well then no, you aren't in love. and even if the answer is yes on both of your parts, you need to experience being in a relationship with him before you decide.





Your question is also a bit confusing because you can love someone while not being IN LOVE with someone, and what I've said above is an answer to wether or not you're in love with him. It is definitely possible that you love him at this point, at least in my standards, as love can be used loosely as with a friend or just that you love who he is.





I think that you need to decide this sort of question for yourself, and not let other people tell you. They don't know your circumstances.
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