';I can't help who I love,'; is it a true,false, or circumstantial statement...?

Do you think that a person cannot help who he or she loves? Or is it all choice? Why or why not? (All answers and opinions are welcome.)';I can't help who I love,'; is it a true,false, or circumstantial statement...?
Personally I think it's true. You can't help who you love because your heart and your mind have two completely different way of functioning. I've felt this way before.';I can't help who I love,'; is it a true,false, or circumstantial statement...?
What's love got to do with it?


Young people have fallen for Hollywood's version of life.


You've been desensitized to sex.


You've been desensitized to violence


and you've let them mislead your relationship rituals'


You don't have too have sex to keep a man


You don't have to except violence in your relationship


You do not have to be dumb to attract the opposite sex


If that man cannot support you and your children, if he cannot protect you or your children, if he cannot teach your boys to be men,


and help you teach your girl's to be good women, then he should not


have the Honor or the Privilege to make ';love';, show love, share love and accept love from you!


I pray to GOD that I can reach just one of you and get you to understand.!


Break the Hoolywood relationship mold!
No I don't think anyone can help who they love. I think that everyone has a person they are supposed to be with and when they meet each other I think there is a special connection that you don't have with anyone else in the world. Almost like a calling for those two people to be together but this is just my oppinion.
it is choice. love takes time, and you would have to chose to take the time to get to know the person or not. if you chose to get to know them and build a relationship and fall in love, then you could've helped that. you could have chosen to not do that, and not fall in love. love is definitely a choice in my eyes.......





mine?


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To be quite honest


(A million people will disagree, that's okay)


I think you CAN help who you love.


If you are attracted to someone, personality and looks, and if you get to know them well enough, date them, etc.


Then you can pretty much fall in ';love'; with them.


You can easily love someone or hate someone.


Your choice.
i don't think they can help it. The love is there or it isn't. I think it may be cirumstantial, but for the most part, i dont think people can help who they fall in love with.
well it depends on what you mean by 'love'


i do believe you can get over crushes.. but when you're in love, its uncontrollable
you cant help it





but if u love someone you cant be with there are ways to move on even tho it really sucks
It's an immature answer. It's either yes or no when it comes to loving someone.
i agree, ive always felt that love is faith. so if its meant to be that let it.