Such as Hollywood movies and Disney cartoons. Since love is so hard to find, and films make it look so real and promising. Do you think its false hope or appropriate reassurance?Has films given us false hopes of Love?
Yes. In films, the main focus of love is the first stage of love, the infatuation. There aren't many films out there that give us a real glimpse into the reality of after you fall in love or after the marriage. They don't want to show us the obstacles of keeping the passion alive after the infatuation or the problems that couples go through. I believe the main focus of romance movies is to inspire you or give you hope that there really is an everlasting love. Sort of like how the Wizard of Oz was meant to cheer up people during the Depression. So I guess that it is ok to dream and let movies set your imagination loose.Has films given us false hopes of Love?
Of course because I, myself, is a victim to Hollywood's fake happy endings. I love movies, they are my passion. With that in mind, I can safely say that movies has damaged my vision of love and what to expect. Thanks to all of the love movies I seen in my life, I think that every girl out there is going to be won with a few simple cute words or gestures and I have seen and experienced first hand that isn't or ever was true.I am not saying that all girls won't be won over like this but I clearly haven't met the girls that will and thanks to the movies I seen all my life, I expect that girls will be won over and when I try it in the real world, I am seen as the nice guy who finishes lasts. I don't blame my passion of movies for my bad luck with women but I do blame the movies themselves because thanks to them, I think that I will have a happy ending and most of the times, those happy endings will never happen.
I hope this answer wasn't as confusing as I think it is and I hope this answer helped too.
Good question BTW.
wow, great question. yeah, i think so. oh if only life were like the notebook. all guys in real life are just pervs who go for the easy ones. sometimes i feel as if love doesn't exist. i want to believe it does but not with the type of guys i meet. i think movies and even disney movies like cinderella make every girl think that guys can inspire us and that there will be a one special guy to make your dreams come true. i also think a lot has changed since those movies were made, what ten years ago? more teens are becoming pregnant and idk love just is losing its definition. but anyway, that's just life. and the movies are just the movies.
p.s. i'm sorry, i didn't realize you were a guy. not all guys are pervs, just most. i really wasn't trying to offend you in any way (:
i would agree with that movies that are Disney as you mentioned often give us the ideas that we as people will all find love and be able to get that love no matter wat i believe in the whole view of things it is a false hope unfortunately not everybody can get everything they want especially love and it sux but it is true :(
Yes. Films project this idea of real and true love being found so easily and lasting forever. Its unrealistic especially teen movies like High School Musical give a very different idea of teenage years to preteens. You begin to hope that you lived in such a perfect world too..
Yeah, definitely, too many beta males or ugly guys in films get good looking girls, that doesn't happen in real life
dam good question yes i believe they have because they make it seem like anybody can get with anybody its BS because thats not how it works and we are starting to realize that
it's have films not has films.
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