Thursday, February 4, 2010

What's the difference between real love and false love?

I cant tell the difference, and i need someone to help out here. sometimes i get mistaken on that.What's the difference between real love and false love?
If you ask 5 different people you will get 5 different answers. If you ask the same person at 5 different times in their lives you will more than likely get 5 different answers. But here are some princples that come to mind when I think of love:





honesty compassion respect


consideration faithfulness attachment


caring intimacy passion


steadfastness acceptance hope


forgiveness humility awareness


courage willingness patience


open-mindedness perseverance tolerance


trust unity gratitude


sensuality





I could go on and on. Because people define love differently based on their life experiences and their beliefs about human nature it may be better for you to ask yourself what you know love isn't, then perhaps you can begin forming your own opinion of what love actually means to you. And that is what truly matters beyond what my or anyone else's definition is. A worthy question for thought though. Good luck!What's the difference between real love and false love?
I kind of think false love is when you quickly fall in love with someone. Like having a crush. False love can also be when you make your self fall in love when truly you aren't. So I guess true love is when you cant live without each other, and if you think to your self and ask your self why you love them, you should be able to answer it easily. :)
Uhm. Real love is Real it's true. Fake love doesn't last. I don't understand the confusion you pretty much answered your own question........
real love is patient, is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. . .And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. - excerpts from 1 Corinthians 13:4-13
well do you think that when a guy or girl asks you out do they seem serious because if they do they will have respect for you for anything you want to denine it's really up to you not me.
False love is called infatuation. Which is just a strong attraction to another because its someone new in the picture. aka fresh meat. Real love is when every ounce of your being and every ounce of your significant others being is intwined. Its hard to put into words but when you have it youll know.
You'll know when it's real. If it's false, you can also tell that. But love is not really a feeling. You'll know when you have met someone that you want to be with from now on. I sure did.
You can feel real love in ur hear and stomach
Love is not the same as lust. It the one you think you ';love'; where to lose all their hair and get horrible warts would you stay with them?
if you're impatient with it it's lust or what we call puppy love. if you'd wait for your beloved until the end of your days you're in love.
Love is over a long term situation. It requires, time and attention. Infactuation is when you meet someone and you feel a connection. But love takes time, it grows and develops.
love sucks
real love give you butterfly.
Ones Honest, ones Not
you can feel true love but false love you don't feel anything when you feel true love there is warmth feeling when you're hands touch..(:
I'd imagine false love is during the early stages of a relationship, where you're still learning about the other person, but everything is going well, you're blissfully happy, and you can't imagine anything going wrong. Love-like feelings are there, but basically for most people it's way too early to know for sure exactly how you know about that person, as you're still learning about them.





Real love is when you've been with the person for an extended period of time, know just about everything there is to know, and *still* have those feelings of euphoria. When things don't actually always go well, but you see problems as a chance to prove how you feel about the other person, not as annoying issues.





Basically, false love may be that stage where you don't have enough info, and real love when you know everything you need to. =)
Real love is when you are willing to die for someone and do anything and evrything for them...you like them because they make you feel good and you just love being with them because of who they are ( not what they have or own) and you can imagine yourself with them forever.
false love often leads to sex to try to keep someone togethere.


but real love is when you respect the other person so much that you are patient and kind with them and absitinent.
real love is when you want to be with that person and want to serve them. when that person becomes your number one priority and you want to make them happy. real love is when you accept that person for who they are and you are willing to stick with them through the hard times. false love is selfish. false love is when you want to be with the person for selfish reasons such as only for lust, looks, or for some other personal gain and nothing else... hope that helps
One is love, one is not....what else is there to know?
There's not dictinary answer to this question...


You should just be able to ';feel'; real love %26lt;3..


it's indescribable :)
Well, real love is real and false love is ......false.
Love is a complicated thing. A combination of emotions and hormones. There are different forms of it. the love you have for family, for a friend, and for a partner.





I don't know if false would be the right term, but you may find that you don't love a person the way you first thought. When you find that right person-the one that you can feel geniune love for as your partner-you know it in time. Love takes time to develop. Some people use the phrases ';puppy love'; and ';love at first sight';. The thing is though you might find someone attractive right away, or have lust for them, but like I mentioned love takes time. It grows and changes with time. With that special person you grow to love them deeper.





When you find your true love that person completes you_they are your other half. You may have differences, but you forgive and find you can accept them because your love for them is stronger. Most importantly to answer your question though, when you find that love for someone it won't be a question-you will know.
real love-they dont cheat on you, they dont judge you, and they want to spend time with you.





fake love-they cheat or make comments about other girls, comment on your looks or taste, and spend most of your time doing not-so-public things.
Well, to be honest, especially at the beginning of a relationship, its hard to tell at times.





I believe I've been in love twice in my life and at the beginning of both relationships, things STILL felt different for me than to other relationships I've had which were 'false' love. I don't like to call it 'false' love per se, but rather a less deep kind of love.





It's a feeling that is very hard to put into words, so I'm afraid I can't really help. However I've found that time can really give answers. For instance, I kept on being in love with one of my ex boyfriends for many YEARS after we broke up, even when I entered new relationships. And the 'love' I thought I experienced in the new relationships sort of faded after a few months or the first year or so.





In the long run, that's how I've come to tell the difference, really.

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