Wednesday, February 10, 2010

If you truly ';fall in love with'; someone then you will never ';fall out of love'; with them. True or False?




Because if you fall out of love then I submit to you that it wasn't TRUE LOVE in the first place.





Am I wrong?If you truly ';fall in love with'; someone then you will never ';fall out of love'; with them. True or False?
You are RIGHT!





True love is when you still love someone even after 'falling apart'....





Most of the times, it becomes a torment in such a case till you overcome the pain!If you truly ';fall in love with'; someone then you will never ';fall out of love'; with them. True or False?
I don't think anyone really knows what true love is. When you fall in love, you embark on a journey with that person. There is a beautiful message from a spiritual teacher that says:


Some people come into your life for a day, some people come into your life for a lifetime. Love is being able to honour all of them, whether they served their purpose in your life for one day, one year or eternity.


True love is able to withstand the process of growth, evolving, maturing and deepening into something else. Ultimately, I believe there is really only one kind of true love: the love of God that enables to ';love your neighbor as yourself'; and love your enemies.


Romantic love is rarely true love. I've seen so many people who started out with a deep romantic love for each other end up just living together side by side because it was the Choice they made and they felt stuck with it. They feel out of love and allowed their relationship to evolve into something else. I think this happens to some extent to everyone. I have never met a couple who were still in love with each other 5 or 10 or 15 or 20 years later. If anything, they had more respect for each other, more admiration, more appreciation because the journey of life had shown them how the other behaves under duress- and that is the real test of love. When you fall in love, it is an emotional experience with not much depth. You attract someone who has the qualities you feel are missing in your life and you are so enamoured with that person because you think they will give you those qualities you seek. If they do, you stay ';in love'; for a long time. If they don't, you quickly fall out of love with them. To me , all of this is relative, based on limited human desires and motivation. When you learn to love someone you would rather not be around and not have to engage with, you begin to understand what love is really all about.
Yes.





Everyone falls out of love from time to time. Couples who have been together for a long time will tell you that you have to work to fall in love again and again and again. And you have to work to maintain that love.





You may never completely stop loving them, but you do fall out of being ';in love'; with them.





It's the biggest mistake people make in relationships. The idea of ';Oh, we fell out of love, it must not be 'true love''; so they decide to divorce rather than try to work at falling in love again.





I submit to you that if you fall in love, and it develops into true love, then when the ';in love'; phase fades (as it always will) you will work to fall in love again. The willingness to work at it is the measure of how worthy the love is of being called true.
normal people fall in and out of love all the time. personally, i believe that if you can find your soul mate, you'll never fall out of love with them. if they're not your soul mate, then it is possible to fall out of love with them. you can't make yourself fall in love either. and true love will never fade.
yikes. i've pondered this question many a time...





i don't know how i feel about ';falling in love'; ...


i mean, is that a true honest real emotion?


i know that Love is, but ';falling in love?';


i'm not sure, and do not know how to answer your question.
You are absolutely right, I even have nothing more to add.
No, but you do grow apart.
true!

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