Is love... a lie? false hope to fill empty spaces in peoples lives?

or is there such a thing as ';soul mates';? and what about some of the other over trumped cheesy ideas that hollywood makes money off you from?Is love... a lie? false hope to fill empty spaces in peoples lives?
I suppose, but you could consider all experiences just holes to fill empty spaces in peoples lives.Is love... a lie? false hope to fill empty spaces in peoples lives?
When a romance is over, and you look back and analyze a love feeling, one conclusion becomes obvious: romantic love is a form of insanity.


To learn to appreciate what another person stands for, to perceive goodness and sincere generosity in another, and to begin to admire the deep intelligence and problem solving abilities of another person is to lay the foundation for an admiring respect, and a growing love for this type of person.
this is differ person to person buddy. love have so many shades lie,trap,happiness, sad and etc.
No, it's a trap.
Love is real. So are people who don't currently have love in their lives.
i like you. you are funny.





no. no such thing at all! what a crock. is that what adolesants said to their parents back in the day when their parents were going to marry them off to people twice their age? is that what st valentine comforted himself with as he lay rotting in a dungeon somewhere, that one day a great and glorious corporation that would trump the emperor of rome for all his glory with a simple greeting card that may or may not speak it words to be heard and seen?





sooul mates? whatever gets you in someone pants.
i think there is at least one person someone will fall in love with and love forever but a lot of people these days a rushed to get married and make a mistake or they just dont want to get married.
watch '; the Story of Us';. it will tell you all the secrets of being in relationships. actually, love is about acceptance and seeing things through others' eyes. love is not a lie. our ideas about love are mostly lies. love is not romance. romance can be a part of love. as for soul mates... a best friend can be a soul mate. soul mates are just people attached to each other for one reason or another. one's best bet in this life is to just find someone who can compliment our existence with theirs. and leave the fairytale endings in the movies and other forms of entertainment. good luck.
Yes there is love, it is the attraction of one thing to another. THere are more love then romantic, there is feternal love, platonic love, family love, etc. Love is the spice that enrich greatly the flavour of life.
i do not care for money don't you see ----i just care about some-----one coming out and playing with me.


he is a tricky one ,makes me think ,makes me crazy.


if he is the one for me ..yupeeeeeeeee


but friends till the end is good for me.i do love thee





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I think when most people think of love, they see it as an emotion. Like the romantic kind of love or motherly love or whatever.


And these are good, but aren't the whole story.


They may be expressions of the deeper spiritual sense of love, but they get confused by thoughts conflicting emotions, and ego aspects like possessiveness, jealousy


Love in the spiritual sense is more like acceptance. Giving space to. Allowing to be.


It comes out of the experience and knowledge of beingness and oneness. Once you know how to be, you can allow others to be, without any assessments, judgements, conditions etc.





Someone defined love as unconditional positive regard. that comes close
there is love, but the one thing you can count on is change. if you change and grow together this is real love. when you marry, you give your heart to someone, and you hope they dont break it. soul mates, i dont know.my wife said we were but, 5 years later, she left...change.you know why angels can fly? because they take themselves so lightly...
';Falling in love'; and ';love at first sight'; aren't really love, that's infatuation. Love is a conscious decision to care for another person. It's a choice you make to put someone else's needs above your own. Once the initial passion is gone, you still have the decision you made to truly love the other person though thick and thin, unconditionally.


I like to think there is such thing as soul mates, though I'm not really sure. I think if you choose to love someone and they do the same in return, then they turn into your soul mate. In order for that to be possible, however, it can't be a 50/50 relationship. Each member in the relationship must give 100%.
wow what an appropriate question for today is V-day and all but lets get to the point,


no i dont believe in love at first site or any of that horse crock the media uses to get those chick-flicks rollin, what i do believe is that love can grow on you even if you try to deny or hide from it. as for moi, i havent had the pleasure of experienceing that ';head over heal'; love so many claim they have collided with and quite frankly i dont believe i ever will, to love in that manor seems like to far of a reach for me, cuz i just might be too short to grasp it. and it seems that everyone that believes they are ';in love'; decide to discontinue their relationship for what ever reason so i just dont kno? i do think a lot of people create false ideas of love to trick themselves and others and to fill up a vacant area in their soul or to have something others seem to enjoy so well called love.


but from what i pick up love is but a mind game for both involved that takes a lot of opening up to actually succeed at and for me opening up is easier said than done....


so in conclusion love just might be a lost cause for me but could very well work out for the rest of you.
yes. its there. its always there. your just dont look for it. it looks for you.
In a way, if you and your partner truly believe in soulmates, regardless of how irrational it might be, it is true for both of you. Creating an intersubjective reality which can be just as real as other things. Sometimes rationality, and objective judgment need to be suspended when it comes to human emotions.