You are a family. Love makes a family. LOVE will hold your family together. Before this girl sews your guy. Sew her because of severe threat and false assault. Do it! Before she sews your guy.
Good Luck!My children and i love a false accused sex offender?
41% of men are actually innocent of criminal sexual assault ( rape ) my stepdad is innocent his is in custody @chicago cook county jail for alleged rape he's not kind of person is unfaithful not a rapist he was encouraged he's accused of doing this to my former bestfriend that turned 18 two-n-half
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weeks earlier so he been held w/$10,000 bond ..background info my mother has a house rule that she actively enforces not just to me she tells all my friends that visit that once you cross our threshold that all her rules apply so the rule: if she's not home or sleeping no one is to be in our house
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so on this day mom picked me and lil sis up from school and head to the store meanwhile my friend goes to our house to supposeitly get a hat or something? stepdad home alone drinking %26amp; playing playstation he lets her in that talk about to which she agreed she took him by the hands
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and while walking backwards she lead him to my parents rroom now dont get me wrong he's no angle he is unfaithful so anyway she sits at the foot of the bed which was made %26amp; had an open box of jewelry next to her ..she allowed him to undress her she laid back to recv
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The fact that he just came home from the marines and his has athletic abilities have nothing to do with this. The fact that he is a rapist is very pertinent! He has demonstrated terrible judgment being with a 14 year old and having sexual relations with her. Is this the type of judgment you want to fight for and to be the influence on your sons? Sounds like you need to concentrate on getting your sons back even if it means backing away from this relationship.
Well if someone was innocent they shouldn't have plead guilty. Are you getting your facts from him or another source on what happened? Please make sure to get all the facts straight in this situation, in the eyes of the court/law this man is guilty because he plead so. Now if it's all a false accusation it does not matter now like I said before in the eyes of the court/law he is guilty and could get into more trouble if your cousin does call dcfs. Right now at this point if anything else was said about him to authorities he is **** out of luck because he was convicted before.
well if it was me i would of '; handled that girl'; if u kno wat i mean but the world filled with alot of F'ed up ppl but doesnt rape have to be reported in a certian time before the cops can do anything...but ithink they have papers that u can fill out to show that the girl maybe lieing liek check her story agian and im sure their are flaws
The guy may have felt that it was a smart thing to do(plead guilty) for whatever reason it can happen that somone pleads guilty because how the cops interrogate, make you feel like admiting to it is the smarter thing to do even if you really didnt as well as the depression that comes with it may throw your brain chemicals out of whack, dont forget that the cops are deceptive and want somone behind bars it doesnt matter who as long as they can say they caught somone in relation to a crime, as well the accused may be going through an extremely hard time emotionally. Either way the cops label you guilty until you are proven innocent. Im not saying every case is like this, and im sure there are real pervs out there, but being accused when you know you didnt do it is messed up. I speak from experience. This is why you must make the call for yourself. Only God really knows what happened.
Whether or not this man knew this girl was under 18 when he slept with her, he did rape her. She was under the legal age of consent, but even if she had been 18 he still allowed her to get drunk and then took advantage of that by having sex with her. Regardless, he did something really stupid.
What were the terms of his plea agreement? People rarely plead guilty without getting something in return - like a reduced sentence. If there is nothing in his legal agreement about him not being around kids, then there's not really anything DCFS can do about it.
Your mom thinks she is doing what is best for your boys by keeping them away from someone who at worst is a sexual predatory and at best is someone who may not have the world's greatest judgement. If she has legal custody of them, then you technically have to abide by the decisions she makes. If you are trying to get them back, having this man in your life - whether he's innocent or not - can be a strike against you in the eyes of the legal system. It sucks, but that's the way it works.
Just keep in on the DL for awhile until your family know how much integrity he has.
Then say somthing like people make mistakes in the past.
Sound as though your Mom, at least, has some sense.
you don't say you did it if you didn't...... something smells with the I didn't know and had to plead guilty part........ why weren't others brought in to help him ..people shes lied to before ?? sorry just doesn't wash ....
statutory rape is still a crime, regardless of mitigating circumstances. the law is the law. the only reason why you would accidentally have sex with a 14 year old girl at 20 is because you really didn't CARE how old she was. trust me, at 20, you can tell if someone is 14. maybe not physically, but mentally for sure.
If you truly care about him then you will stay with him. Yet you are in a bad situation because you have children and you don't have custody of them that makes it a little harder for all of you to be a family. You should try to get custody of your kids and see if it's possible to move away from the troublemaker. No one deserves this. Yet this is something that will stay with him the rest of his life. He should try to get his record cleared.
If he is in the Marines and this happened..he will have to answer to them abt this. As far as you and your kids...which do u love more..him or your children. Get the kids back first..then work on a part-time relationship with him. Let others find out he is a good guy..then u can get on with ur life...And her...karma is a b*tch..it will come full circle to her(or her children)
think of your kids and who your loyalties should be with
I would teach her a lesson about lie'n by going up and confronting her about it and i would probable ever punch her in the face. but if u don't want to do that move away or just ignore it.
why do you say falsely accused? he slept with a 14 year old did he not? no one is accusing they are stating facts. whats he doing with your cousin anyway? face it he got a 14 year old drunk and banged her! i'm glad your mom is smart enough to not let your kids around this perv.why are yoou still with him? if you got kids someone must have found you attractive once. anyone can do better than a rapist, and NOONE would ever plead guilty to rape if they didn't do it you are labelled and ostricized for life.
A truly innocent man would NEVER plead guilty to something he had not done...
He would have a LOT to prove to me and my family.
Are you in a hurry to be with this man?
Your FIRST priority is to the health and safety of your children.
Are you looking for validation from us? If so, then you need to re-evaluate your intentions and you need to take a long, hard, look at this man.
You say you and your children love this guy...is this true (about the kids)? PLEASE exercise ALL caution if you plan to get involved with this guy.
DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT IN YOUR HEART
Where's your proof that he is falsely accused, because he said so? Love can make you blind. I know if I didn't do something, I would never plead guilty for any reason. Also that proves that he did lie. He says he didn't do it but then pleaded guilty. I wouldn't trust this person and I can understand why your mom won't give your kids back. Your kids and their safety should be your #1 priority. You have to ask yourself what is more important, being with your kids or being with this man.
too risky.
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