Friday, February 12, 2010

TRUE or FALSE : Those with high self esteem/confidence fall in love slower than those without it?

Think about it.TRUE or FALSE : Those with high self esteem/confidence fall in love slower than those without it?
id say true, you have a bunch of low self esteem'd people running around with inferiority complexes, they finally find a person that likes them and they fall in love, hardcore, because they finally have validation perhaps.TRUE or FALSE : Those with high self esteem/confidence fall in love slower than those without it?
i think they are less ';needy'; and know what they need in a relationship and aren't as easilly ';fooled'; into THINKING they are in love. if they're truly confident, they are VERY self aware,





so yes i'd agree with you
Neither true nor false, but irrelevant. The two topics have nothing to do with each other, except for the fact that both are personal choices the individual makes and can unmake.
TRUE! they don't rely on external sources of acceptance and love, they are more comfortable being alone with themselves instead of searching for some outside ';fix'; for their feelings of unworthiness and lonliness.
Of course, insecure people try to find validation through a relationship while secure individuals love themselves enough to know that you can't make someone else your idol and be happy. it is common sense.
True to a degree.


Love is love , they will wait for true love. Those with less self esteem will allow themselves to fall more readily.






False.





I have horrible self esteem because I look like a monster, but I have no problem falling in love with women.
I would say false. I think that people with low self-esteem often confuse neediness with love.
really... i never heard of that before. i just like to talk $hit. that doesn't make me have high self esteem or confidence does it.
Hell no man! Completely oppositte! Hello!? Guys with CONFIDENCE get women more!
depends on who their falling in love with

Republicans, are you concerned that the party's love for war (on false grounds) has doubled our debt?

in just 8 years!Republicans, are you concerned that the party's love for war (on false grounds) has doubled our debt?
Yes I`m concerned. We get beat over the head about how socialized medicine will be the death of us all, but yet we can waste billions in a useless war to satisfy the military complex. It takes a special kind of stupid to sell out your country`s manufacturing ability, refuse to defend your borders, and then start a war in a region where people have nothing to do better then die for their beliefs. At this rate this country will become another third world slum and peso`s will be worth more then dollars.Republicans, are you concerned that the party's love for war (on false grounds) has doubled our debt?
No, for the most part the republicans are like Brittany Spears, she said, '; Honestly, I think we should just trust our president in every decision he makes, we should just support that, you know, be faithful, and see what happens. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QK1RRrwcb鈥?/a>


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we don't love war EVER. However this war IS NECESSARY!!
Its not the war its the entitlements...
No. Because it has not.
they love war and they like spending your money, nothing new here
Happy you noticed!!





Wait until Iran!!

My children and i love a false accused sex offender?

my cousin has lied about her age plenty of times. she is 14 and tells others she is 18. she does look like it. well she went to this guys apartment got drunk with him and then slept with him. she asked him out he said no it is only a one night stand. the man was 20. she got mad and tried to date for months well 2 months after tryin she went to the police and told them he raped her. she even had her 11 yr old brother lie with her. so now this hard workin man is labeled as a low risk sexual predator. my kids and i love him. i have two boys. my mom has custody and refuses to give them back cuz she is scared of dcfs. he had to plead guilty cuz he was scared this deceiveing girl was going to get him sent to prison. he had just come home from the marines at that. plus in high school he was the champion wrestler and excellent at track. we don't know what to do? we just want to be a family. but now this girl is threatenin to call dcfs if he is around my boys!!!!My children and i love a false accused sex offender?
You are a family. Love makes a family. LOVE will hold your family together. Before this girl sews your guy. Sew her because of severe threat and false assault. Do it! Before she sews your guy.


Good Luck!My children and i love a false accused sex offender?
41% of men are actually innocent of criminal sexual assault ( rape ) my stepdad is innocent his is in custody @chicago cook county jail for alleged rape he's not kind of person is unfaithful not a rapist he was encouraged he's accused of doing this to my former bestfriend that turned 18 two-n-half

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weeks earlier so he been held w/$10,000 bond ..background info my mother has a house rule that she actively enforces not just to me she tells all my friends that visit that once you cross our threshold that all her rules apply so the rule: if she's not home or sleeping no one is to be in our house

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so on this day mom picked me and lil sis up from school and head to the store meanwhile my friend goes to our house to supposeitly get a hat or something? stepdad home alone drinking %26amp; playing playstation he lets her in that talk about to which she agreed she took him by the hands

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and while walking backwards she lead him to my parents rroom now dont get me wrong he's no angle he is unfaithful so anyway she sits at the foot of the bed which was made %26amp; had an open box of jewelry next to her ..she allowed him to undress her she laid back to recv

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The fact that he just came home from the marines and his has athletic abilities have nothing to do with this. The fact that he is a rapist is very pertinent! He has demonstrated terrible judgment being with a 14 year old and having sexual relations with her. Is this the type of judgment you want to fight for and to be the influence on your sons? Sounds like you need to concentrate on getting your sons back even if it means backing away from this relationship.
Well if someone was innocent they shouldn't have plead guilty. Are you getting your facts from him or another source on what happened? Please make sure to get all the facts straight in this situation, in the eyes of the court/law this man is guilty because he plead so. Now if it's all a false accusation it does not matter now like I said before in the eyes of the court/law he is guilty and could get into more trouble if your cousin does call dcfs. Right now at this point if anything else was said about him to authorities he is **** out of luck because he was convicted before.
well if it was me i would of '; handled that girl'; if u kno wat i mean but the world filled with alot of F'ed up ppl but doesnt rape have to be reported in a certian time before the cops can do anything...but ithink they have papers that u can fill out to show that the girl maybe lieing liek check her story agian and im sure their are flaws
The guy may have felt that it was a smart thing to do(plead guilty) for whatever reason it can happen that somone pleads guilty because how the cops interrogate, make you feel like admiting to it is the smarter thing to do even if you really didnt as well as the depression that comes with it may throw your brain chemicals out of whack, dont forget that the cops are deceptive and want somone behind bars it doesnt matter who as long as they can say they caught somone in relation to a crime, as well the accused may be going through an extremely hard time emotionally. Either way the cops label you guilty until you are proven innocent. Im not saying every case is like this, and im sure there are real pervs out there, but being accused when you know you didnt do it is messed up. I speak from experience. This is why you must make the call for yourself. Only God really knows what happened.
Whether or not this man knew this girl was under 18 when he slept with her, he did rape her. She was under the legal age of consent, but even if she had been 18 he still allowed her to get drunk and then took advantage of that by having sex with her. Regardless, he did something really stupid.


What were the terms of his plea agreement? People rarely plead guilty without getting something in return - like a reduced sentence. If there is nothing in his legal agreement about him not being around kids, then there's not really anything DCFS can do about it.


Your mom thinks she is doing what is best for your boys by keeping them away from someone who at worst is a sexual predatory and at best is someone who may not have the world's greatest judgement. If she has legal custody of them, then you technically have to abide by the decisions she makes. If you are trying to get them back, having this man in your life - whether he's innocent or not - can be a strike against you in the eyes of the legal system. It sucks, but that's the way it works.
Just keep in on the DL for awhile until your family know how much integrity he has.





Then say somthing like people make mistakes in the past.
Sound as though your Mom, at least, has some sense.
you don't say you did it if you didn't...... something smells with the I didn't know and had to plead guilty part........ why weren't others brought in to help him ..people shes lied to before ?? sorry just doesn't wash ....
statutory rape is still a crime, regardless of mitigating circumstances. the law is the law. the only reason why you would accidentally have sex with a 14 year old girl at 20 is because you really didn't CARE how old she was. trust me, at 20, you can tell if someone is 14. maybe not physically, but mentally for sure.
If you truly care about him then you will stay with him. Yet you are in a bad situation because you have children and you don't have custody of them that makes it a little harder for all of you to be a family. You should try to get custody of your kids and see if it's possible to move away from the troublemaker. No one deserves this. Yet this is something that will stay with him the rest of his life. He should try to get his record cleared.
If he is in the Marines and this happened..he will have to answer to them abt this. As far as you and your kids...which do u love more..him or your children. Get the kids back first..then work on a part-time relationship with him. Let others find out he is a good guy..then u can get on with ur life...And her...karma is a b*tch..it will come full circle to her(or her children)
think of your kids and who your loyalties should be with
I would teach her a lesson about lie'n by going up and confronting her about it and i would probable ever punch her in the face. but if u don't want to do that move away or just ignore it.
why do you say falsely accused? he slept with a 14 year old did he not? no one is accusing they are stating facts. whats he doing with your cousin anyway? face it he got a 14 year old drunk and banged her! i'm glad your mom is smart enough to not let your kids around this perv.why are yoou still with him? if you got kids someone must have found you attractive once. anyone can do better than a rapist, and NOONE would ever plead guilty to rape if they didn't do it you are labelled and ostricized for life.
A truly innocent man would NEVER plead guilty to something he had not done...


He would have a LOT to prove to me and my family.


Are you in a hurry to be with this man?


Your FIRST priority is to the health and safety of your children.


Are you looking for validation from us? If so, then you need to re-evaluate your intentions and you need to take a long, hard, look at this man.


You say you and your children love this guy...is this true (about the kids)? PLEASE exercise ALL caution if you plan to get involved with this guy.
DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS RIGHT IN YOUR HEART
Where's your proof that he is falsely accused, because he said so? Love can make you blind. I know if I didn't do something, I would never plead guilty for any reason. Also that proves that he did lie. He says he didn't do it but then pleaded guilty. I wouldn't trust this person and I can understand why your mom won't give your kids back. Your kids and their safety should be your #1 priority. You have to ask yourself what is more important, being with your kids or being with this man.
too risky.

Hot sex on the1st date and getting married is a form of expressing love for some people. True or False?

True.Hot sex on the1st date and getting married is a form of expressing love for some people. True or False?
False. Having sex on the first date usually just means that u want to hook up and dont care about the other person seeing as how you don't know them. As for only marrying someone because u think thats a way to express love is also false. The only reason why u should marry someone is because you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Of course being in love with them is also good, but to just ask someone to marry u because u think its a form of expressing love is wrong. Hot sex on the1st date and getting married is a form of expressing love for some people. True or False?
Personally I feel hot sex on a first date is just lust and hormones and chance.


If you want to know someone before you marry them hold off on the sex for a while, if a guy cant wait then he is not in it for the love, but the sex.


And hot sex can be true on a first date, so can a one night stand. But when it comes down to it, did you respect yourself and her? Did you know you would not fit together and get married?


Marriage is a commitment of pure love, where no man or woman can get between the two of you. If temptation walked past you naked, your eyes would never waver from your wife, because you love her no matter what. You would do anything for the person who you love, sometimes giving up what you want. If you cant let the other women friends go and stay at home like your wife does, then you only make both of you unhappy.


I may be a stay at home mom who works when necessary, but I am outgoing as well. Too bad my husband wont take me out with him. He likes his private life separate from the lies he lives.
Hot sex on the first date is definately not love, and getting married does not necessarily mean you are in love either nowadays...


Love to me is wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone and never wanting to do anything to hurt them, physically or mentally. If you are able to fulfill this for the rest of your life, you are truly in love!
Hot sex on the first date??? hmmmmmm I don't think Love is part of the equation but I do believe Lust would be the best word to describe it. Nothing wrong with hot sex I guess but heck, why not wait for the second date and get a movie and a dinner out of the deal first ladies? And certainly getting marriage solidifies the love two people have. That's why most people get married in the first place!
Many people have had hot sex but not necessarily been in love. Some first meetings, or first dates, are lust, and not an expression of love.





Many people get married. But some wake up the next morning in Las Vegas and realize they were just drunk and did something stupid. This would not be an expression of love either.





So your statement would be false.



That can be true or false. Some people have sex with everyone no matter who it is and it also can happen on the first date. I have a friend who was like that. Some people just love sex and some people look for love and find it in the wrong places.
unless you want to be surprised with children who grow up in an unstable home, number one is stupid. i'm not sure when the marriage in question takes place so i'm going to say that your whole question stinks.
I don't fully understand the question. Did they get married on the first date? People express love in many different ways, so I will say True.
False.
I guess for some people it is. I just don't know any of those people.
False!
hot sex or getting married are not necessary a way to prove love
it's neither true nor false.
It can go either way
i don't really understand, but I am gonna say true

';Love makes the world go round.'; Is this sentence true or false?

False-Love is to place your happiness in the happiness of another.


Gottfried Leibnitz.';Love makes the world go round.'; Is this sentence true or false?
The Arms Industry Makes The World Go Round...Metaphorically of course.





It is estimated that yearly, over 1 trillion dollars are spent on military expenditures and arms worldwide (2% of World GDP)';Love makes the world go round.'; Is this sentence true or false?
false. The moon makes teh world go round, scientifically speaking. But good question!!
False to me. I would say money makes the world go round. Like it or not.
probably not since it suck s to
it dose make it a lot more fun

Love.. True or False? Is it time to Re Invent Love?

From what I have been hearing, seeing and experiencing it seems like allot of people are unhappy in their relationships. i wanna know what the general public is thinking about our constructed version of love/relationships..


Is it outdated?


Is it an unrealistic concept?


Is there some truth to what we are trying to achieve.


Where does other subjects like; Religion, Technology(internet) and Time (history vs today) come into play when it comes to love?


Truthfully I feel it is time to Re Invent Love!Love.. True or False? Is it time to Re Invent Love?
That's true. Love is the strongest energy in universe. Every so-called concrete topic is inferior.
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  • TRUE or FALSE? When you love someone, you're always insecure...?

    FALSE.





    If anything, it helps me feel better about myself.TRUE or FALSE? When you love someone, you're always insecure...?
    depends on weather the one you love is faithful. mine is faithful so I am 90% secure. the 10% is for the ladies who won't leave him alone. he doesn't respond but............TRUE or FALSE? When you love someone, you're always insecure...?
    False
    Ummm i guess false.....but i know is


    TRUE LOVE SHOULDN'T HURT.


    Have a gr8 day~
    False.
    this statement is only true IF the person you love doesn't love you as well...
    That's only true if you started out being insecure.
    not at all times..
    False
    False
    FALSE. it makes me MORE secure, if anything.
    True because everyone is always insecure regardless of the situation
    False, it should be the other way around. love should give you the feeling of warmth and security
    False, that's a good way to make them want to leave
    False
    True.
    TRUE.


    For me.


    And around him.





    But I'm always insecure- more around him tho.
    yeah when i am around my crush i fell like there is always something i can do to make me look better or seem more confident XO
    False.





    You should feel comfortable and at home.
    FALSE: When you love someone, there should be nothing to feel insecure about
    About what???
    Only True if they don't love you Back in the same way that you love them.
    false...i feel more secure!





    =)


    xoxo
    FALSE
    False! I trust my husband %26amp; our relationship.
    False.


    Well, if they love you they should definately make you feel secure in everything you do.





    You should be secure anyways.
    False.