False love?

i have a boy friend and he is really serious about our relationship. he loves me but i dont love him back in the same way. latly he has been betrayed by another girl and he said he was moviing on with me. i dont want to break his heart. he even wants children with me though i dont think im ready at all! wat should i tell him?!!! help please!!!False love?
You tell him the TRUTH that what. Just like you spelled it out here....tell him. Honestly and the truth can never go wrong. Why would you want to tell him otherwise anyway? Just be kind and explain your feelings....Be gentle. But tell the honest truth.False love?
Let him know you are not willing to be a rebound girlfriend.
Please be very gentle! We guys have feelings too! He has been hurt before, dont hurt him more by either lying or telling him the true in a hurtful way. Maybe he just needs to slow down. You should tell him what you think, but be polite
well it was wrong on your part to say yes...but all things are fixable with truth and honesty...just let him know that you dont see him that way but you still want to be friends and that you will be there for him
tell him the truth
tell him he is gettin 2 attatched n u dnt feel the same
be honest with him, your building a prison of walls that your not ready to overcome
smear some jam on it...it'll attract wasps but should produce a crop of at least 4 pounds.
You need to tell him how you feel. You cant keep lieing to him. It will make things worse.
BE HONEST WITH THE GUY. DON'T WASTE HIS TIME. EITHER WAY HE GOING TO BE HURT. IT BEST FOR HIM TO KNOW THE TRUTH NOW THAN TO PROLONG IT AND ALLOW HIM TO INVEST IN YOU AND YOUR HEART IS NOT IN IT LIKE HIS.
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You made the bed, you sleep in it
you are not betraying him if you tell him it's over now. If his heart breaks that's up to him. Stop playing with his feelings right now and bite the bullet.
Tell him how you really feel and move on!
Movingin means SHACKING UP! That does not mean anything like LOVE baby. It means free screwing- thats all. Produce kids, WOW, who is going to feed and cloth them--Welfare?? How old are you two?
Tell him the way you feel. Moving in with you isn't going to change anything.
be totally honest or u cud get hurt worse!
Tell him the truth. The longer you drag this out the harder it will be. It will get worse if you keep on lien 2 him like that.- i noe the pressure so im not calln u out n sayn that u loved him - but just explain to him that u want to be with him, but you need to take a slower approach to furthering the relationship.
its your fault that this whole thing happened. I dont wanna sound mean, but if u told the truth in the first place, none of this would've happened.
truth will set you free. tell him what you feel about him. i think he made the decision that your feelings are not regarded. i think your feelings should prevail.
Okay, stop it. You're over analyzing things too much, girl. Look at the bigger picture, okay? Which is worse: staying in a relationship that you feel nothing about and winding up miserable in the long run and sparing his feelings now, or waiting and he finds out that you don't feel the same way and you become the new one to hurt his heart?


Just be real with him. Women always expect and, sometimes even demand honesty, but we're afraid to give it-why? If he really loves you, it will hurt him, but he will respect your directness and openness about your relationship. Sensitivity makes it hard to sever ties or soften blows, but it will hit him harder if you let him continue to live in his delusions about where your head space is. Am I making sense? Be fair to yourself- you owe yourself that.


Decide what you expect from telling him (still friends? Continue to try?) and then go for it. Make clear your resolution and offer suggestions to executing your plan.
tell him the Truth ok!